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Duality Of Human Mind – Living in the Gray
As children, we are taught to develop a conscience, which ultimately leads us to view things in black and white. This conscience helps us distinguish right from wrong. However, as we grow, those boundaries blur, and we find ourselves navigating various shades of gray in life. I was raised as a Hindu, and while later learning how Shri Krishna justifies a righteous war to Arjuna in the Bhagavad Gita, my younger self struggled to adjust to this new reality. I was so entrenched in my beliefs that I couldn’t understand why Lord Krishna didn’t marry Ma Radha but instead had 100 wives. To me, that didn’t seem right. I also…
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What Do You Pray For?
For most of my life, I’ve been a believer, experiencing moments and periods of doubt along the way. Ultimately, however, my faith has only grown stronger. While I embrace a spiritual and liberal approach to how individuals practice their faith, I have occasionally questioned certain religious practices, viewing them as challenging to world peace. Still, I believe in one God, respect all religions, and appreciate the goodness they bring to the world. One question that has always lingered in my mind is the concept of selfless love for God. Can one truly pray without asking for anything in return? Being grateful for the good in your life isn’t selfless, and…
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A Silent Mind – Boon or Bane?
Growing up, I found happiness in my imaginary world. These self-created fantasies provided me with moments of positivity and fulfillment. In my mind, I could laugh and crack jokes with friends or people I wished to befriend. I often played the hero, saving others from goons or rescuing them from drowning. Little did I know that this was an escape mechanism. While it may be okay temporarily, it can be a cry for help in the long run. I always had a racing mind. When I shared this with my older cousins, they reassured me that it was normal—that it was human. However, when my racing thoughts began to interfere…
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Reflections: A Decade of Expat Life
This December marks 10 years since I first moved to the United States, and it feels surreal to think about how far I’ve come. I decided to write this blog to share my expat journey, not only as a reflection of my own experiences but also as a resource for anyone who’s considering a similar path. I moved to the US when I was 25—one of the few milestones in my life that didn’t get delayed (haha). My journey began in a small town in Rhode Island, the tiniest state in the country. I was consulting as an IT professional for my company’s largest client, which meant we came in…
